Love The Thing You Hate

I think this needs to be a song title and everyone will then find out how important it is.  I can be honest with you all that I have had my share of things to hate and just this very day, one of them popped up to remind me how good it is to love the thing you hate.

This is a technique written about by Dr John Demartini in his book The Gratitude Effect.  In essence the thing is that you can not let go of something, move on and and start thinking of what you want to replace it with, if you are still caught up with hatred or any negative emotion about it.  To move on, you have to come to terms with the thing, learn to love it and then you can release it and accept new things into your life.

The way that I do this is to sit down and write the longest list I possibly can about why I love the thing.  Every single thing that I can think of about why I am grateful that it occurred.  And then I ask the man of my dreams if I missed anything and he can usually add a few more!  Every little bit helps.

I then just thank the Universe for sending me the thing in the first place, enjoy the moment and get on with life.

It works, it is amazing and I am then able to concentrate on more of my dreams and desires, letting acceptance and deservability in and loving the effect.  And you know what, you can rewire your brain to do this for you without too much work on your part.  You just have to be persistent with it until the new pathway kicks in.  And that is a scientific fact.

Now, on to my next dream, to be a millionaire!  And I am not joking.